Monday, December 20, 2010

CHRISTMAS GIFTS THAT WON'T BREAK

I received one of those from Alaska this week! When the package came to the front door, I looked at the return address. It read 'ak' I'm so up on things I called Catherine to see if she knew anyone in Arkansas. She informed me 'ak' was Alaska and then I was really stumped. So I proceeded to open the package.

Inside was an American flag with a certificate of authenticity to Mr and Mrs Greene. My first thoughts were skeptical (they didn't even have our first names) as I read the declaration. It had flown in actual combat in Afghanistan.(right) But then my eyes drifted to the person who sent the package. It was a young lady that I had followed through elementary, middle and high school who is now serving in the military. I have no clue why she chose me to be the recipient of such a special gift. Could it be that I shared gifts with her that won't break as she was growing up and she is now returning the favor. At least that's what I believe.

We can never know the impact we have on a child. And it is the simple gifts that matter, unconditional love, respect, hope,joy and peace. And she will never know how my heart was warmed on that cold December day.

Yes, it came in a box but it was packed with wishes of love, hope, joy and peace.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

CAMP SUNSHINE PARTY







We had a very successful party again this year thanks to everyone's help and co-operation. The kids enjoyed the activities, presents they chose for their family from Kirby's store, food, singing and helping Giles tell the Christmas story.

One of the camper's enjoyed his scarf because 'he knew someone took special care to knit such a beautiful scarf'. The smiles and excitement on their faces always makes it worthwhile. Thank you FUMC for supporting this activity both during the summer and at Christmas.






Friday, December 10, 2010

ACTION FIGURES

Most teenagers despise to hear an adult start out a story with "well when I was your age," but that is exactly how my prayer breakfast devotion began. I shared with them about the birth of the Star Wars action figures.

You see, my dad owned a toy store so this was our time of year! Except when the most desirable toys were unavailable. Such was the case with the Star Wars action figures. Kenner toy manufacturer was not prepared for the popularity of Star Wars after the movie's inception. Every kid on the planet wanted a doll! So in a stroke of marketing genius, Kenner sold empty boxes with the promise to fill that box as soon as the action figures became available. This kept a lot of children from being disappointed at Christmas.

The concept of Star Wars features good triumphing over evil and gave people "hope".
Sounds familiar to our Biblical "action figure" who came to us in the birth of Jesus. He continues to bring that hope to a broken world.

As the sr hi's left McDonalds with their star wars key chains, I was summoned by two different people in the restaurant. They asked if I birthed all those kids and I said "sometimes it feel like it. I surely love them like my own," I continued. I had the opportunity to witness about the youth at First Methodist. They commented "what a great group of young men and women." Both folks thanked me for the message they overheard and for leading the youth. I told them it was an honor because our youth give me "hope".

Go out and hug one of our youth this Christmas season. It will warm your heart.
--beckygreene

Friday, November 26, 2010

CHRISTMAS GIFTS THAT WON'T BREAK

Just like most of you, I was out shopping on 'Black Friday'. However, this Sunday marks the beginning of the Advent season and instead of looking to fill boxes under the tree, we need to think outside the box to find gifts that won't break. Gifts that bring meaning to our lives beyond instant gratification. Several opportunities are provided for you through our church. This Sunday, bring a nativity from your home to be blessed at our worship service. This will help keep Jesus at the center of your holiday focus.

The annual Camp Sunshine Christmas party keeps giving to children in need. Each of you will be asked to bring a blanket and pillow to share the warmth of Jesus' love the day of our party, December 12, 2-4pm.

Invite persons you know who have experienced loss or grief this year to attend the Blue Christmas service December 14 at 12:15 pm in our chapel. The prayer beads you made will be distributed on this occassion to remind persons they are not alone.

Let's try each day to give gifts from our hearts. Time, love, hope and faith can't be put in a box under the tree, but they can be shared in our community this Christmas season.
--beckygreene

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

SENIOR HI RETREAT

This month I went on my fifth retreat to Valle Crucis. As usual it was a time to center myself, spend time with friends and get closer to God. When we prepare for Valle Crucis the spiritual aspect is often forgotten among the packing and excitement about the candy store or where we are going to sit on the bus. However, as soon as I get up the mountain and sit in a rocking chair to look at the gorgeous view, I can immediately feel God's presence around me. Throughout the weekend we focused on the same question we asked ourselves on Mission Trip that summer, "What kind of world do you want?" It was a great way to think back to July and how compelled we were by the song 'World' by Five for Fighting. We were asked to focus on what kind of world we want for our school, our family, our church and ourselves.

When we returned to Gastonia it was time to get our homework done and catch up on sleep to get ready for the school week. It has been two weeks since the retreat, and it's always a challenge to keep yourself in the same mindset you had on the retreat. However, the prayer journals we made that weekend have really helped me to take some time out of each day to reflect on how I', molding my world into what God wants it to be. After all, "history starts now."

Megan Mallonee

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

MID HI VALLE CRUCIS

I asked the youth 'What did you learn about standing out as a disciple of Christ? What are the key ingredients of your faith'? I challenged them to read a chapter in James each night because that was the biblical base of our weekend sessions. Here are some of the responses thus far:

When I was reading James 1 I found a great verse! James 1:13 "God cannot be tempted by evil nor does he tempt anyone; but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire he is dragged away and enticed. Gray Heath



My favorite part in James was when it talked about the poverty and riches. My favorite part in James 2 was verse 8 'you shall love your neighbor as yourself'. = BE HAPPY Chelsea Vale



I plan to tell people about our trip & I've written a prayer in my journal each night so far. I love that idea so much ... it's private but its a way to let my feelings out. I have told people about it too & they said they might start trying that. Madison Dellinger



Ya! I plan to stand out in a crowd by not going along with people that talk about others and just walk away. I hope that makes me stand out in a way that people know that I am a follower of only Christ. Holly McIntosh

Ava Smith went to Wendy's on the way home. When a lady asked about her hoodie, she used it as an opportunity to witness to her faith. She proceeded to share what Valle Crucis meant to her. The lady was so impressed she bought Ava's lunch.

Monday, September 13, 2010

9-11 IN NEW YORK CITY

What an amazing experience to be at the US OPEN WOMEN'S FINALS in New York City on Sept. 11 2010. Navy servicemen in their dress blues unfurled the American flag over the entire tennis court. Chaka Kaun asked everyone in the stadium to pause in a moment of silence.

I prayed for understanding, Peace, those who lost loved ones and those who live in fear. I also gave thanks for the many blessings that I have in my life. I was particularly grateful that in the secular atmosphere of a professional tennis match, a sabbath moment was observed.

I quickly thought about how the invocations at our high school football games have been eliminated. It seems to me our youth have been cheated out of one of the basic moral fibers of our country. When I participated in high school athletics it was a privilege of students and community leaders to be asked to deliver the invocation. I wonder if the students and fans could vote, how many would be in favor of beginning each game with sabbath, silence, prayer?

I am hopeful that this trend does not lead us to eliminate the playing of our national anthem before sporting events. Had that been the case in New York, 23,000 spectators would have missed the awesome display of respect and loyalty on Sept. 11, 2010.

Friday, August 20, 2010

FOOTBALL FRIDAY NIGHT

Football Friday Night FFN has been a part of my life for 50 years.
First as a Shelby High Golden Lion sitting with my dad on the 50 yard
line in the reserved section. Later, FFN leaned to the left where the
junior high crowd hung out. Then we leaned to the right during high
school as part of the marching band. We stood up and cheered 'we're not
rough, we're not tough, we're just Shelby High struutin' our stuff'


When I first moved to Gastonia, FFN was alive and well. Most of the church
kids went to Ashbrook and a cute coach from Grier sat on top of the
pressbox which was added incentive to be there. When Charlie and I first
started dating we kept it pretty quite till we showed up at the Huss vs.
Ashbrook game for football friday night!


Throughout Charlie's coaching career I wore red and black as a South Point red raider and Columbia blue and navy as a Hunter Huss Huskie. I sat through rain, lopsided
victories, stinging defeats, a play-off game in the mountains that was
freezing, and the hot, muggy nights of August.


I couldn't begin to count the many church members I have supported as players, coaches, referees, cheerleaders, band members, ticket takers, concession stand servers or
spectators. And yet 50 years later, that FFN rush fills the air and I still love it. Tonite we are going to Clover vs South Point. But the best part is we get to go out to eat before the game, and when we get ready to leave we can. And watch the rest of it on ............Foooootballll Friday Night.
--beckygreene

MISSION TRIP CHANGED ME

This was my first year attending a mission trip, so I didn't know
exactly what to expect. I knew I would be improving Pontiac, Michigan's
community, but I did not know how. I had no idea how much it would
affect me.

I wasn't exactly the hard working type, so I was a little
nervous. That changed immediately. My relationship with God changed in
Michigan as well. With the help of prayer beads, devotions, and Bible
verses, I became closer to God. My experiences on the mission are
moments that I will never forget. I am so thankful that I had such a
great opportunity.

Carly Tindall

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

WHY GOD CHOOSE ME

This Mission to Michigan was my second mission trip. I looked forward to
this trip, because my last one was such a blast.

I really didn't know what to expect going into this trip. I believe God chose me to go on
this trip because I love people , and it brings me joy to see the smiles
on the faces that we help. This trip was an amazing spiritual experience
for me and let me see some things I needed to change in my life. We
accomplished a lot at the Baldwin Center, even when things didn't go
exactly the way we planned because 'Blessed are the flexible' I had an
amazing time and I look forward to many more mission trips.

Parrisha Barnes

Friday, August 13, 2010

BUILDING THE KIND OF WORLD YOU WANT

On every mission trip we experience "change" in our attitudes, hearts and actions; yet when we get back home the same distractions, lifestyles and pressures smack us in the face. In that way summer mission projects are easier because our effort is 100% focused with the occasional cell phone, texting and drama. On-going service at home must be juggled with other friends, school, family and activities.

How long has it been since you thought about the people/projects @ the Baldwin Center, Community Church, the City of Pontiac, or the foot washing?

What we should be striving for is compassion based on relationships not obligation. In other words, integrated into each person is a "ministry of presence" so that even when opportunities are not spelled out, we feel compelled to respond out of love. This is how we "Live Out Loud" and build the kind of world we want.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

WHY GOD CHOSE ME

God chose me to go on mission to Michigan for two totally different reasons.

Mainly He chose me to be able to learn and connect with all types of people including homeless, black and the poor. He also chose me because He knew I would be a hard worker and get the job done in order to help the community and let them know I care about them.


I think the second reason was to show I am a Christian. I am wonderfully made by GOD and perfect in His eyes: therefore, I can be my true self regardless of the group I am with.


Meredith Kay Love

Sunday, August 1, 2010

BLESSED ARE THE FLEXIBLE

"Blessed are the flexible, for they will not be bent out of shape." I was choosen by GOD to come to Michigan so other's lives will be changed by our Mission, as well as my own.

"This is the time of my life" the song says and it is absolutely true for this trip. What would be a better way to spend our time than to serve others through Christ? Being able to see the changes you make in other's lives is incredible. You always find different ways to be the hands and feet of Christ. I want to take the many wonderful lessons I learn on these trips and incorporate them into my everyday life when I return home.

We are truly blessed to have a church community that loves us so much. The prayer beads that the women make us are so special, and they have become one of my most prized possessions.

"Teach us Lord that everyday, down every street, come chances to be GOD'S hands and feet."

Maggie Horne

WHY GOD CHOOSE ME

God choose me for this mission because this is what i love to do. Just seeing the faces of people we have helped when we are finished just puts joy in my heart.

Hannah Williams

Friday, July 30, 2010

WHY GOD CHOOSE ME

I think that God chose me for Mission to Michigan because he wanted me
to concentrate more on my spiritual life. Also, I think that He
wanted me to connect more with the people in our youth group that I
hadn't really connected with before, so that I would feel more
comfortable with our youth group.

God chose me so that I could share Him with the people at the Baldwin Center by doing all sorts of projects and hosting a day camp for the kids in the area.

Rebecca Oden

Thursday, July 29, 2010

God chose me to go on this mission to remind me how to balance Him in my life. I kind of got off track with the start of a job and the end of school so He chose me because I needed to re-center my faith.

Also with the events in my life over the last couple of months, God showed me through the people we met on the trip that we shouldn’t give up on our faith. God won’t give up on you and He will always find ways to help you through it.

God chose me to be on this mission because He knew I could work hard and give it my all for a Christian community that needs it. He chose me to use my own two hands to spread His Word and love through the talents He has given me. He chose me to help Detroit, but they helped me, too.
Abbey Horne
Why God Chose Me

The Mission to Michigan was my second mission trip. I had looked forward to it all summer, but never guessed it would be such an amazing and spiritually awakening experience. I tried to go in to the week with an open mind and open heart. I made sure to step out of my comfort zone and let myself experience new things and new people.

Most of all, I tried to go where God led me. This meant scraping wallpaper in a hot house all day. This meant staying awake with my mom for three hours in the early morning while she drove and everyone else slept. This meant playing with the children in the day camp. As a group, this meant making a change at the Baldwin Center.

God chose me for this mission trip so that I could do all this and more. God chose me because it was such an important experience for me. I have never felt so close with a group of people. Our foot-washing devotion was so touching that I felt like a new person. God chose me because it was a chance for me to Live Out Loud. It was a chance for me to do something that would help others. It was a chance for me to be a better person. God chose me for the mission trip to Pontiac, Michigan for many reasons. Because he chose me, I had the chance to be closer with my youth group and with God.

Megan Mallonee

Sunday, July 25, 2010

DAY EIGHT

Hi Richard! Hi John! Hi Don! Hi Jeff! Hi Charlie! Boy were we glad to see our relief drivers! Several of the Dads; Richard Blackburn (Ben), John O'Neill (Hannah), Don Buckner (Abigail), Jeff Horne (Abbey and Maggie), and Charlie Greene (Becky and Catherine) drove up to Parkersburg WV on Friday night to relieve our tired counselors/drivers for the trip home. We made a quick pit stop, changed drivers and settled back in for some more rest.

After a refueling stop (vehicles and bodies) in Princeton WV we hunkered down for the last leg of return trip to beautiful, hot Gastonia and FUMC. We certainly were glad to be headed SOUTH, north bound I-77 was backed up for 5 to 10 miles in two spots in Virginia. Of course some of us (tired adults) used this to catch up on sleep. We arrived safely back in FUMC parking lot at 6 pm, 14 1/2 hour trip.

We would like to thank God, our parents, our counselors, our leaders (Becky and Jim) and our church for supporting and allowing us to have this wonderful experience.
DAY SEVEN

Friday was spent wrapping up the projects at the Baldwin Center. The
playground team spread 15 lbs of mulch, the brick patio was completed,
the entire house was stripped of wallpaper, Food for Hope bags were
packed to deliver to senior citizens, the daycampers had a beach party
complete with Sundrop slushies, tee shirts and school supplies to take
home. The clothes closet office and reception area is near completion.

It was the first really hot day and it poured the rain for nearly an
hour. As we packed to leave many staff, parents, clients, and children
commented on how hard we worked, how focused we were, how friendly and
mature our sr hi youth were. We know we left our footprints and they too
made an impression on our hearts.

We showered and arrived back at the Baldwin Center to Mid's funnell cakes! For supper, we invaded Sonic - can you imagine 40 people placing orders in the outdoor speaker! After celebrating our counselors, seniors and Fabulous Fran, we closed with
journaling and prayer. We asked the same question the last night that
we began with, "why do you think God chose you for this mission trip". In
the weeks ahead, I hope some of the youth will share their answers. The grand finale of the eveing was the sllide show presentation. We wish to thank Richard Abernethy for his diligence in producing this essay of photos which captured our mission to Michigan. The last frame posed the question 'What kind of world do you want?'. Which leaves each of us to ponder how we continue to serve and live out our faith every day. After a trip to IHOP and rest for the drivers, we got on the road at 3:30am to head home.

Night,Night.
--beckygreene

Friday, July 23, 2010

Mission Trip 2010: Pontiac, Michigan-DAY 6





EDITOR'S NOTE:

Correction from team "Gold Digger" and playground worksite. No bobcat was brought in to finish off the job. A song was created at the site that said, "We want bobcat!" because their had been talk of bringing one to get the last "big polls" because the staff thought that would be impossible. However, FUMC surprised them and manually dug 3 feet and lifted concrete cinder blocks from the dug hole by using a rope. They worked as a team and played tug-a-war with the concrete until it was pulled out.

The morning was kicked off with Morning Glow from Abigail and Lauren. They talked about our "holy ground." In early years Jesus had church tent meetings, so the church community moved from place to place. This was significant because this is a reminder of how we should still live out our faith in every circumstance, even though we have sanctuaries to worship. On this trip we were encouraged to be hands and feet of God by the work we are doing at The Baldwin Center. Even though we are only here for one week, our impact and examples of our Christian faith will be left on Pontiac for many years to come.

At our work sites today we symbolically left our mark as a reminder of our devotion this morning. Many of us taped crosses to our sites to constantly remind us of our faith. We had many worksites today that were examples of Holy Ground.

At the playground site much progress was made. A total of TEN poles were dug and at the conclusion of the day, the removal of the playground set was complete. It was a satisfactory for those involved, as well as others who had been a part of the process earlier in the week or those who had heard or witnessed the progress. What an awesome accomplishment, especially on something that seemed impossible on Monday.

The relocation of the fence was quite successful today. The entire fence was moved and assembled in the new location except for one rotten panel that will need to be replaced. They anticipate completing this project tomorrow. The relocation will be beneficial to the Center in the winter months when the snow is extremely high and needs to be cleared from the parking lot.

Since the fence project on required a few extra hands, the others first assigned to this project created their own project. Abbey Horne, Lauren Long and Catherine Greene decided that a brick patio would be a nice touch to the freshly painted shed our group painted earlier in the week. They tirelessly cleared grass, framed the patio and toiled the soil. Next they added tons of sand and began to set the bricks. Even after passing up their ice cream surprise, the tedious project was not completed at the end of the day. Lauren and Abbey were determined to finish what they started though, and requested to finish it on Friday. The boys at this site, Clay and Sam, trimmed a TON of trees to beautify this site.

The wallpapering group made substantial progress at the house on Thursday. All the wallpaper was removed from the bottom level and the stairs. Much was removed from the upper level of the house and they anticipate completing the project by the end of the week. The group took great pride in their tasks and even created an additional project that will be finished on Friday. The decided to remodel a bathroom in the house. To begin this project, they removed hardware from bathroom appliances and also began removing tile. They look forward to completing this on Friday.

The Clothes Closet group continued demolition in one room of the place. They knocked out all of the dry wall and replaced a majority of it with new dry wall. This was a labor intensive project and required much time and effort. Although they felt like much wasn't accomplished yesterday, we can promise that this group was extremely successful, complete with plaster in their eyes. At the end of the day they wanted to do more, so they applied sheet rock compound to the walls, which will be finished tomorrow. Erin Ingle would like EVERYONE to know that she used a SAWSALL to chop PLENTY of wood, with proof in her sore wrist.


Another group helped a new member of The Baldwin Center staff decorate her office. This new fundraising director started her job the day we arrived, so we immediately had a special bond with her. This group painted her new office Carolina blue. The woman was more than thrilled with the paint and exclaimed she felt right at home. They also helped her unload her supplies and set-up her new place. After this job was completed, Brittany Helm and Hannah Williams helped pack and organize non-perishable food for elderly adults in the community.

Another wonderful day was had by the children that attended Camp Sunshine. They learned through a variety of activities that they were all a creation of God and molded into the beautiful children they are. The children and youth also enjoyed another sing along, complete with Little Sally Walker, Cha Cha Slide and Beach Beattitudes.

After another successful and enjoyable day of work, we were excited for showers. After we were refreshed, we split into groups to enjoy a delicious meal of Panera or Wendys. The short dinner time allowed for a meaningful and moving evening devotions that evoked much emotion from our entire group.

Continuing with the theme of Morning Glow, we were reminded that Surely the Presence of the Lord is in ANYPLACE where we mark as "holy ground" as we serve our Lord. Jim reiterated these sentiments by sharing a story from the book, "Same Kind of Different as Me". Through illustrations in this book we became aware that people from all walks of life can walk beside us in our Christian journey. Our leadership team symbolically showed us of our journey this week through an inspiring and deeply meaningful footwashing. This was a tradition that dates back to the days of Jesus, as He washed the feet of those He served. We learned through scripture that the washing of the feet were not by chance but by a conscious decision by Jesus. Those He served in the time traveled mainly by foot, so this was the dirtiest part of their body. The footwashing not only cleansed their feet but also washed away their sins, negative thoughts, concerns, etc. Once their feet were washed they were cleansed both literally and spiritually. This tradition that we continued during devotions evoked so many emotions and were extremely memorable since our feet were washed by our graduated seniors and rising seniors. Again, we closed this time with journal and prayer time using our prayer beads. We closed in a circle and holding hands. Our group has grown closer together because of this trip, and our group is extremely grateful to have others in our group who can hold their hand and cleanse their spirits by simply being a member of this unique and special group. We feel very fortunate and privileged to be a part of such a special group where we all feel loved and accepted, and most importantly share our love for God. As a symbol of our love for one another, we joined hands and closed in prayer.

Continuing with our moving devotions the guys and girls spent time apart separately and enjoyed the bonding experience. Again, it was another great and full day in Michigan.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

mission Trip 2010: Pontiac, Michigan-DAY 5

It's fun day up here in Detroit, Michigan! This is once again Abbey Horne, Megan Freeman, and Cameron Williams blogging to you about our day!
Our day started off by a lovely breakfast made by Mid Dover, George Freeman, and David Whiteside. We had bacon, eggs, cereal, and biscuits! Although we call it our fun day, we still remain serious and take the day to rest and refuel. The group took advantage of this opportunity to bond and get to know everybody better. We arrived at the Henry Ford Museum by charter bus, given free time to walk around and explore in groups. After seeing most of the exhibits, everyone joined in to go see the movie Inception in the IMAX movie theatre. It was a great movie that kept everybody on the tips of their seats anticipating what will happen next. The next stop on our trip brought us to Ann arbor, Michigan for the art fair. Our group greatly enjoyed the atmosphere surrounding the fair and even found several souvenirs to bring back home. Dinner time arrived around 6 p.m at a local restaurant called The Cottage Inn. After dinner, we shopped a little bit longer, but then it was time to regroup on the charter bus and start our journey back to the church. Once we arrived back at the church, Becky led the devotion based on the one given to us this morning by Hannah Oneil and Sarah Whiteside. During the devotion we were given the time to reflect on how we have influenced the christian community around us. As we wrote in our journals and held our prayer beads, we considered what in the community has influenced ourselves and how important it truly is to surround ourselves with christian friends. The scripture given to us tonight taught us that it is easier and wiser to live our faith out loud by surrounding ourselves with strong christian influences and friends.

Mission Trip 2010: Pontiac, Michigan-DAY 4




Greetings from Cameron Williams, Abbey Horne and Megan Freeman.
To start off our day the ladies had a very unexpected wake up call around 7 am. The garbage trucks came for its routine pick up and noisily disposed of the trash right outside of their window. Even though it wasn't the average wake up call, it managed to get all of them up at once in a very swift manner. Our morning glow was presented by Brittany Helm and Chandler Caldwell. They incorporated the lyrics of the song World-5 for Fighting with the idea that life is what it is because of what you make it. With that concept in mind, they then asked " What kind of world would you want or make using a blank canvas?" Even though we are at different places in our lives, we have all gotten there from our own decisions, and the way we live out our lives. Our Canvas is painted with the choices and decisions we have made throughout our lives and will always represent what type of world we want.
The playground team " gold diggers" got down and dirty with the continuing demolition of yesterdays work. The morning dew made it extra muddy but that didn't stop them from working hard and getting the job done. After numerous attempts at getting the cement out of the ground, the gold diggers were losing steam and finally took matters into their own hands. An equipment upgrade was made and the bobcat was introduced to the team. It soon brought back the spirit to the playground and it is now left standing with four poles to go.
The fence group preceded to go on and work on the progress of removing and digging holes. They started the fence building by digging 10 holes 3 feet deep. This will be the foundation of the new fence that will soon be put in.
The day camp group awaited for all the kids to arrive. Breakfast started around 8 :45 and the day quickly moved on from there. The camp councilors and the kids joined in on several group activities consisting of : hula hooping, side walk chalk math, sing and dance alongs, and several crafts.
The garage group was put together by Becky and our new friend Darrell. Their task was to take a cluttered garage filled with home depot donations and transform it into a properly organized shed. The team worked together by moving all the objects out of the garage and with Becky's wonderful organizational skills, sorted everything inside. With everything in catatorgies, the garage team quickly, but efficiently, put everything back into the garage.
The Demolition team removed a kitchen sink and cabinets and a wall bookcase unit. They then finished by putting down a wooden floor to allow the secretary to rearrange her office space.
The Wall Paper Group continued to strip the wallpaper inside of a house. They made great progress and have now just about finished stripping the entire downstairs. A lot of work is still to be done but with the work ethic we have maintained we will knock it out in no time!
After a long hard day of work, we got the pleasure of being able to go to the Detroit Tigers Major League Baseball Game against the Texas Rangers. It was a very exciting game despite the loss from the Tigers. We stayed until the top of the 8Th inning but our game was quickly cut short due to an unexpected rain storm. Everyone enjoyed the game and the bonding time it presented to the group.
For evening devotions each group was given a blank canvas to draw a picture of their days work and then shared their days experiences with the entire youth group reflecting on what they desired their worlds to look like. As a part of the devotions today everyone was asked to journal about what kind of world they wanted and then closed the evening again using their prayer beads thanking God for using them to create the world they wanted.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Mission Trip 2010: Pontiac, Michigan-DAY 3







Our "wake-up" time was an hour earlier today; which most of us felt as we slowly made our way downstairs. Since today was to be our first work day, we had additional preparations to add to our morning. We had to pack our lunches and our bags with clothes to wear following our showers.
Morning Glow was led by Clay and Erin. Their devotion was all about relationships; sustaining them to make an impact on our lives 52 weeks a year instead of just this one. They encouraged us to think about how we work as a group to sustain each other. This week we will strive not to "Catch and Release" our friendships, but to show the love of Christ year round.
We boarded the buses and made our way to The Baldwin Center to divide into our work groups for the day.

We were welcomed by the Resource Developer, Jason Gordon. Jason gave us an orientation and a short tour of the center. Meanwhile, the Day Care Center group, "Team CHABELA" had to go right to work, welcoming children and preparing breakfast. Twelve children attended "Camp Sunshine" Detroit-style. Our theme was "Have you filled your bucket today?" We taught the children that you can fill one another's buckets by doing kind things for each other. You are a "bucket dipper" if you take something out of someone's bucket by being unkind. All of our activities centered around this theme and included language arts, math, crafts, music, and outdoor time. We had lunch with them and began to develop close connections with these special children. We sang songs from a recent Vacation Bible School and closed with a relaxing quiet reflection time.

The children ate a lunch that was also served by some of our group in the Soup Kitchen at the Center. The guests of the Soup Kitchen were served Beans and Franks AKA "Beanie Weenies". Little did we realize that McKenzie would be surrounded by beans-her most-unusual phobia. She survived and helped others in the process.
One of our smaller projects was to unload two boxes of clothing that were donated to the Baldwin Center Clothes Closet.

"Team Cakesters" (named from the car construction game from last night) cleared a lot; removing broken fences and a roof and started post-holes for a new fence. Their favorite part was the removal of SEVEN nasty toilets filled with brown water, mosquito babies and tadpoles. On a lighter note, they scraped paint and applied the first coat of paint on a tool shed.

The "Gold Diggers" aptly named had a main goal to dig and take apart a playground that was not up to code and was more costly to repair than replace. The went through several layers, beginning with mulch and dirt. Next came a very strong layer of weed barrier similar to a burlap sack that had to be cut with scissors. Once they tore through that, they met the clay, which was very thick. In total, the Gold Diggers had to go through 36 inches of mulch, dirt, weed barrier, and clay only to meet up with the unbreakable reinforced concrete base. This seemed like a good time to break for lunch. A trip to the hardware store was needed to purchase the correct tools to take the playground itself apart. The highlight of the day happened within the last five minutes of their workday was when Cameron and Chandler finally pulled out a metal piece with concrete attached that they had been working on all day!

The "Dream Team" began renovations on a house that had been uninhabited for quite a while. They moved furniture, tore out carpet and tore down wallpaper. The house was less than "dreamy"-they found hair on the wall after they peeled the wallpaper and they had to use toilets that had not been cleaned in 12 years-literally. The carpet smelled of animals; some even said the animals may not have been living when they were last in the house.
Skittles AKA "Mark Skillestad" kindly recommended that his group take a break. He then laid down and never came back. While the group wondered where their leader was, he was being transported to the hospital with severe lower back pain and nausea. As it turns out, Skittles, was suffering from a kidney stone. As we write this, Mrs. Skittles is at the hospital with her husband hoping that he can pass the stone and rejoin the group. We ask you to join us in keeping him in your prayers.

After the girls had to limit their showers to 3 minutes or less, we miraculously left the high school in time to go out to eat at the World Famous Big Boy Restaurant. Although some of us had to wait quite a while for our food, the service was friendly and the food was satisfying. Chandler had the most food ever without paying for it. Mid called him a "Moocher" and nothing but it!

Devotions began with a debriefing of the day and what our strengths and weaknesses of the day. We were asked to choose our "Catch of the Day"--the person who overcame the obstacles and was basically the MVP of the day. We ended with our Bible verse and journaling about what we were prayerful, thankful, and joyful about.

Overall, the first day was exhausting, but progress was made and relationships were formed and strengthened.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

MORE PICTURES






Here are several more pictures from today that wouldn't fit on our last blog. We're still working on how to provide captions with these photos!!

Mission Trip 2010: Pontiac, Michigan-DAY 2






GOOD EVENING! This blog is brought to you by FIVE FAITHFUL FEMALES (a name that originally had some interesting suggestions due to exhaustion and heat!): Erin Ingle, Hannah Williams, Parrisha Barnes, Meredith Love and Catherine Greene!!

We enjoyed a restful night and awoke with more energy. We started off the morning with Sunday School at 9:00 a.m. at Community Presbyterian Church of Waterford. We attended Sunday School in the sanctuary for one class, young and OLD! They normally all meet in the room the girls took over with all their air mattresses. We learned that we should all be "little Jesus'" and the hands and feet of God.

As church began at 10:00 a.m., the crowd grew larger. During the service we felt so included because the minister continued to mention the North Carolina youth group. We even had the opportunity to share in communion with them, although they are of a different denomination, they too, like us, have an open table for community. What an awesome experience!

Another warm hospitable act was shown to us after church by the gracious Missions Committee at the church. They served us an AMAAAAZING lunch, which rivaled OUR Southern Hospitality! We're definitely enjoyed being spoiled!!

Next we found a high school that paled in comparison to our local high schools. Their amenities and accommodations were superb, and something we're not accustomed to on most Mission Trips! We had relaxing swims and competitive games of water basketball. These FUN activities were followed by the FIRST shower of the week, and desperately needed after the 14 hour ride yesterday.

We experienced a little free time next as we arrived back at the church. This time including a Wal Mart run for stuff we left back in the South (ah hmm...BECKY!) or FOOD.

Our annual pizza party, provided by Sherry McKenzie, was awaiting us! We want to thank her for satisfying our pizza craving and showing her love and support through a distance! We would also like to thank Amanda Cole for the wonderful poundcake, topped with strawberries (thanks Becks!).

Devotions and team building activities concluded our Sunday night. Some of the activities included "People Mission Finder," in which we went around getting signatures of people who could meet different requirements. We then got in our work groups for Monday and made a car out of random things (oreo cakesters, crackers, stirrers, tape and playing cards). The car had to represent our group, which we made a name for. As "The Dream Team," "Chabrela," "Progresso" and "Gold Digger" made their debuts to the entire group, they served as a reminder that we must work together in our groups this week to be successful in the Motor City. We finished the evening with journaling and prayer time. Our journal topic came from scripture first heard this morning during Sunday School, 2 Thessalonians 2:13. This scripture explained why God chose us to do what we do. We wrote about why we felt God CHOSE US to be apart of this trip and experience this week. Why were we called to Detroit? After our jounaling time, we received our prayer beads provided by the Embrace Group of FUMC, Gastonia. The group lovingly and prayerfully crafted the beads for each individual person in our group and enclosed a personalized letter. We are very grateful for these loving gifts we each received. We will use them throughout the week, and continue to cherish and utilize them upon our return.

We thank each and every one of you for your prayers and thoughts for this Mission Trip. Continue to pray that our hands and feet are extensions of God! Also, don't forget to follow our blog daily to keep up with the exciting events happening in our life.

P.S. We would like to mention our dear friend Fran Anderson, who is the Mrs. Caldwell of Waterford, Michigan. She continues to welcome and excite us with her exuberant attitude and smile, in her rockin' heels! Don't worry, we will receive plenty of hugs this week.

We are getting VERY sleepy and MUST get some rest for our first day of work tomorrow. Goodnight from the 5 faithful females!

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Mission Trip 2010: Pontiac, Michigan-DAY 1









WE ARRIVED SAFELY IN PONTIAC, MICHIGAN! Please check back daily for updates from our group. Each night a new group of youth will be sharing our experiences through this blog. Tonight, wearily, Ben, Megan M., Mary S., Clay, Chandler, Sam and Catherine try to recount our mundane travel day.

FROM C. Caldwell the Might:

Dawn arose in a quick, but exciting flash. Soon, once all arrived, and with a motivational spiritual preparation from Tripp Hord, we were off on our 14 hour (yes, you read that right!) drive. After several pit stops, numerous munching sessions and the creation of "Fort Helen's Playpin," we arrived around 8:30 p.m. and were welcomed by a plethora of Community Presbyterian Church of Waterford, Michigan (our living corridors for the next week) members. We enjoyed a surprise banana split snack provided by this very gracious church. We mingled and interacted with their youth and adult leaders. Despite our exhaustion, we were extremely grateful by this warm welcome and immediately felt right at home. This is the first time we've experienced such a friendly welcome. After an hour (which felt like FOREVER) of unpacking, unloading and blowing up air mattresses (and trying to cram all the girls and their STUFF into a small Sunday School classroom) we enjoyed an always delicious $5 foot long from Subway. We sure shocked the two girls as we arrived shortly before they closed, but thankfully they filled our hungry bellies! Upon arrival back at the church we had a quick meeting and preparation before settling for bed.

Tomorrow we look forward to worshipping with this church during Sunday School and 10 o'clock church! Following the service, we will have an orientation for The Baldwin Center, which is where we will be working this coming week. After we are oriented, we will enjoy a home cooked meal from our generous church hosts. Then we will anxiously await a pool and SHOWER!!

We are extremely excited about the opportunities that await us this week! We look forward to serving the community of Pontiac, while also growing closer and building our own community in our group, all while strengthening our personal relationship with God.

Remember to check back daily for updates from our trip!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Daily Prayer Guide for Motor City Mission Trip

Saturday, July 17
The team departs this morning for Michigan.
Please pray for: ...all the final preparations to be made smoothly.
...safe traveling and health for team.
...unity and bonding while traveling.
Scripture to pray: “Spread your protection over them, that those
who love your name may rejoice in you. For surely, O Lord, you bless
the righteous; you surround them with your favor as with a shield.”
Psalm 5:11-12

Sunday, July 18
After sharing in a local church service, the team
will spend the day in orientation. They will be establishing basic
logistics and connecting with one another.
Please pray for: ...flexibility to circumstances they encounter.
...God’s plans for each participant to be accomplished.
Scripture to pray: “Let the peace of Christ dwell in your hearts,
since as members of the body you were called to peace, and be
thankful.” Colossians 3:15

Monday, July 19
The team starts the bulk of their work schedule
today. For the next several days, they will be building, painting, serving
in a soup kitchen, in a clothes closet and a daycare center.
Please pray for: ...discernment as the team interacts with others.
...team to assimilate all information they need today.
...patience.
Scripture to pray: “Be joyful always, pray continually, give thanks in
all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Jesus Christ.”
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18.

Tuesday, July 20
The team follows a “typical” daily schedule.
Please pray for: ...openness among the recipients.
...just the right things they will need at each site.
...unity of the team.
Scripture to pray: “May our Lord Jesus Christ and God our Father
who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good
hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and
word.” 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17

Wednesday, July 21
The team has a day off. This is a fun
day, but also designed to pace the amount of information the team is
processing.
Please pray for: ...refreshing from God to cover the weariness.
...team’s hearts to be filled with gratitude.
...the students would live out community.
Scripture to pray: “Come to me, all you who are weary and
burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28

Thursday, July 22
The team ramps up for more ministry.
Please pray for: ...continued strength and energy to minister.
...that God would deepen the lessons that He has taught.
...each team member’s life to be changed by this trip.
Scripture to pray: “Come and see what God has done, how awesome
his works in man’s behalf! Praise our God, o peoples, let the sound of
his praise be heard; he has preserved our lives and kept our feet
from slipping.” Psalm 66:5, 8-9

Friday, July 23
The team concludes their week’s labor of love.
Please pray for: ...the team to be encouragers of one another as
well as the local people.
...spiritual conversations to occur in relationships built,
...seeds that have been planted to bear much fruit.
Scripture to pray: “If you don’t know what you are doing, pray to
the Father. He loves to help.” James 1:5

Saturday, July 24
The team leaves for home today.
Please pray for: ...God to speak to each participant today as they
reflect on what has taken place.
...others at home to be blessed by the reports from this trip.
...team’s acclimation back to a normal routine.
Scripture to pray: “The prayer of a person living right with God is
something powerful to be reckoned with.” James 5:16

Friday, June 18, 2010

LAKE JUNALUSKA

Most people can't even pronounce Jun-a-lus-ka, let alone tell you where it is located. However, for United Methodist it represents 'heaven on earth' near Waynesville, NC, a part of the Great Smokey Mountains.



Each summer Annual Conference is held for members of Western NC. While business sessions can sometimes be tedious this year's debate about relocating to Greensboro brought about lively debate. In the end the delegates voted 2-1 to remain at Lake J. I am glad they voted in favor of staying at Lake Junaluska.



While housing, parking, and meals can be problematic, the spiritual dimension is immeasurable. For minister's children it is one of the constants in their lives. For life-long Methodists it is foundational. For visitors it is a welcoming respite.



The highlight of the weekend for me was Angie Hollar's ordination service. As Angie's friend and mentor, I can not think of a single person who embodies the spirit of Christ and possesses the gifts for ministry more so than Angie. As I bid farewell to the Lake on Sunday, I came back renewed and confident in my own call to ministry. Junaluska is good like that! It is a place that can offer you peace and perspective in a often too busy world.



The Lightshine choir of FUMC will be attending Music Week at Lake Junaluska , June 20-25. Have fun y'all! The Terrace will never be the same! But do me a favor, while you are there, hike to the cross, sit and look out over the Lake, and spend some time in personal reflection and prayer. Toss out those things in your life that are keeping you from walking close to Christ and breathe deep the spirit of God in your heart.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

GRADUATION

"Well it's that time of year when the band plays familiar strains of Pomp and Circumstance, Chorus members sing the alma mater, color cladded students process in step, speakers make their way to the podium, diplomas are awarded and tassels turn.

It has happened for decades and yet each year when I prepare for our Senior Sunday,it is emotional and a time to reminisce. I usually tell the seniors that most of Graduation
is a blur! I mean I can't tell you who gave the Commencement address at Pfeiffer University. And the only reason I recall my high school speaker is because it was ME!


I graduated in 1976 which was the bi-centennial year so everything we received that year had an American flag on it! And the senior class decided it would be a great year to break
tradition, never my favorite thing to do. So instead of distinguished Shelby High School graduates in black robes w/ gold stoles, the females wore bright 'Yeller' rain slickers, technically our robes. I think that is the very moment I decided I did not like other people deciding what I
would wear.


So back to that speech I gave... it was on Faith. Faith in God,Faith in country and faith in my fellow man. Ironic, don't you think? Or maybe it was just the beginning of many 'aha moments!'

Congratulations Class of 2010, I look forward to hearing your personal reflections on Graduation. If you wait 34 years to write about it (like I did), you will need to send it to me in Large Print!

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

SENIOR DINNER ADDRESS

What kind of world do you want? Think anything, let's start at the start - history starts now!

The song, World by Five For Fighting, says 'be careful what you wish for . . .'

Back in August you were wishing your Senior year would hurry up and start.

In October we were wishing Hannah would HURRY and get to the church so we could depart for Valle Crucis.

And parents let's be honest, there have been times that you too have been wishing for this moment.

Well be careful what you wish for.

Because it looks a little different today, doesn't it? There are mixed feelings about this moment and that's exactly how it is suppose to be.

On our fall retreat we watched a video entitled "God's Chisel." Among other things, it reminded us that each of us is God's masterpiece. Fast forward to Youth Sunday and William and Jay reminded us again how SPECIAL we are.

But the song we used in the video goes a step further and suggests it is our responsibility to build a masterpiece fashioned by Gods' example. Will we be able to call our creation good and Holy? Will we be able to take what we do each day and make sure it contributes to our Master's design?

When you came in tonight, I hope you noticed the pool which looks similar to a swim meet. There is a Start and Finish line. However, could you tell which was which? I used this image because it is so tempting to look at graduation as crossing the Finish line. After all that is what we do, isn't it?

Swim a lap, get out of the pool, get a ribbon.

Even our church life is marked by many "finishes." Like Annabelle today, we are baptized at an early age, go through conformation, and then we join the church like last weeks Confirmands did.

In our school life it is much the same. Finish high school, cross the stage, get a diploma.

But sometimes it's easy to become so goal oriented and so focused on our dreams that we overlook the simple things that we should be enjoying in everyday life.

The next two weeks are going to be FAST AND FURIOUS. Do not fail to thank your parents. Give thanks to a God who loves you in spite of those things that need chiseling. Look around at the people, your friends and give thanks for them.

In this life, there is no such thing as a finish line. Once you accomplish one dream, God will toss you another. When you face an obstacle there will be another challenge. The currents of history only move in one direction and that is forward.

You have lived through tough economic times , natural disasters, war... we have gone through it before and we will get through it again.

HISTORY STARTS NOW!

It is not realistic to only live in the high moments, most of life is routine. So the question is, What kind of world do you want today? And each day after that you ask the question again.

Just like a swim meet, get out of the water, get back in and start at the start.

What steeple will you choose? What place will your faith hold now? Here I'm not just talking to the Seniors. Historically parents wander too at some point. So you have refocus, find a reason and get back in the water.

As Christians God challenges us to taste every moment and to Live it Out Loud. This is the time to be more than a name or face in the crowd - don't just blend in. History starts now for you too.

Each of us have different talents, different dreams and different destinations. Yet we all have the power to build a masterpiece. Let's start now to LIVE OUT LOUD!

Friday, May 21, 2010

The Time of my Life

Thank you to all the youth who participated in the worship service this past Sunday. What a true testimony to others about the way you LIVE YOUR FAITH OUT LOUD!

My friend Debs shared a song "The Time of my Life" by former American Idol contestant, David Cook, that picks up on the theme LOL.

The words are: I'll taste every moment, and live it out loud, I know this is the time to be more than a name or a face in the crowd. This is the time, This is the time of my life.

As a new class of confirmands is blessed this Sunday, I hope you will remember your baptism and confirmation. Indeed, as we say "yes" to God and our faith, we are accepting the responsibility to be more than a name or face in the crowd. It has to mean something and cause us to act differently, make better choices, be more accepting. It is not easy when we care what others think, when we struggle financially or emotionally, when things don't go our way or someone wrongs us. But God didn't ask us to LOL when it was easy. He modeled practicing your faith regardless of the circumstances.

As the song implies "choose to love rather than be bitter ". Quit "holding on to things/images that vanish into air". And always, always keep your feet on solid ground and face the Son. And then you can face everyday with arms wide open to Live Out Loud!

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Finding Sabbath in a whirlwind

Well it finally happened, my two worlds collided! The Sabbath world I have been trying so hard to perfect intersected with my "to do" list in the real world.

On Friday, Charlie and I loaded up Ma maw B and headed to Chapel Hill for the weekend to celebrate Catherine's graduate degree in Sports Administration. For those of you not familiar with my reality, my 88 year old dementia challenged mother lives, moves and has her being with us. During the 150 miles trip, she must have exclaimed half of those miles 'well I see why Catherine doesn't come home much.'

Friday afternoon was a day of running around Chapel Hill to accomplish Catherine's "to do" list. The only crisis we encountered was Catherine realizing her Master's hood for Sports and Exercise Science was sage green and Carolina blue, apparently not in her color pallet! We had a nice meal at Nantucket courtesy of Catherine's supervisor.

Only at evening's end did I finally take a deep breath and remember there was an evening and there was morning, the seventh day. I gave thanks for mother being able to come, regardless of her mental condition. When mother handed Catherine the bouquet of fresh flowers from the Farmer's Market, Ma maw's eyes sparkled and "hi there girl" was just as clear as the day Catherine Rebecca Greene was born! In our hotel room Catherine literally went to sleep as soon as she sat down in a straight back chair and I said "well done ,good and faithful servant". Finally I gave thanks for Charlie and his patience and understanding with three women!

Saturday was more of the same. Searching for Sabbath time, I found it by the pool with family, friends and sunshine. As a peaceful breeze ruffled the air, I was reminded that "surely the Lord is in this place."

Sunday was a day of celebration. Once again I struggled between checking out of the hotel, putting on my make up and my mother's (not on the same face, thank you), finding a parking place and pushing the wheelchair versus recognizing the Sabbath in the day. I was challenged to find reverence in the chaos.

Closing my eyes and taking slow, deep breaths, God came to me
in the beauty of nature
in the tears as graduates' names were announced
in multi races, cultures and religions represented
in traditional music and new pieces
in commencement messages
in a grandmother and daughter
walking barefoot through the lush lawns
in my cell phone and sidekick email left in the car
in plentiful hugs, smiles and flowers
for mothers and graduates
Thank you Catherine and the Class of 2010 for helping me practice sabbath. "Sabbath is the great equalizer, reminding us we do not live on this earth but in it" (Barbara Brown Taylor).
In the eyes of the world, there is no reward for reflection. In the eyes of God, reflection is required not occassionally but on a regular basis. You have to wonder what makes people so resistant to it, because I came back from Chapel Hill refreshed spiritually and more committed to Sabbath.


Thursday, April 22, 2010

Right Now

This week during our revival services, Judge Jesse Caldwell preached on the familiar passage in John 11. It is the story of Lazarus, who was ill. I have often thought of this story about Mary and Martha’s brother, as a family love story. I have also looked at it in light of Jesus’ friendship with Lazarus because, “Jesus wept.” It is most commonly taught as a miracle of Jesus raising Lazarus from the dead.
But Jesse brought to light a “backside.” Perhaps it is a story of Christian “impatience.” Mary and Martha wanted Jesus to come to Bethany immediately. Instead, He waited four days. Isn’t that just like us to expect Jesus to come when and where we want? Why is it so difficult for us to believe? Jesus was there for Mary and Martha. He did not desert them or turn a deaf ear. Quite the contrary, however, Jesus did make them wait.
Is there something in your life waiting to happen? Maybe it is a career decision, a broken relationship to mend, an upcoming graduation, a baby being adopted? Have you tried pleading with Jesus like Mary and Martha did? They wanted their brother healed sooner, but it took four days. When they had lost all hope, Jesus showed up. And He was right on time for what he had planned.
We are impatient too. We want to be healed and fixed, RIGHT NOW. But it may be four days from now, or four weeks, four years or longer. But Jesus has heard you and he is faithful to respond. Will you be faithful to believe?
Isaiah 40:31 says “Those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not faint.”

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

It's the Little Things that Get Me!

Easter Sunday Afternoon, Catherine and I were sitting outside in the sun and were surprised by the over-abundant camellia bush at the side of the house. I must admit I have a "black thumb" so anything alive and blooming on my property is the result of someone else's hard work and TLC. However, I love fresh flowers, something I grew accustomed to from my mother's flower beds. Even after I moved to Gastonia, she continued to cut fresh flowers and arrange beautiful bouquets throughout my house. I continued this tradition for Catherine as she was growing up. She grew accustomed to having fresh flowers on her dresser. Catherine commented that MaMaw B. would really love those flowers and that she would light up if she saw them. Maybe that is the memory which made me get up from my comfy chair, go inside to get snips and cut some of the pretty camellia blooms. I brought them inside and found a small vase for the bright fuchsia blooms. I placed the vase on Mother's dresser and returned to my afternoon in the sun. Later in the evening, Mother came to my bedroom door and said "Bec, thank you for the flowers, they are beautiful." Wow! I almost lost it. My 88 year old mother stiffened by arthritis and debilitated by dementia was mobile and crystal clear with her expression of thought. I don't understand dementia. It has robbed my mother of so much quality of life, but for that glimpse of "my mother", I will be eternally grateful. And during the difficult days, I will recall her deep, abiding faith. I will also go back to the creaking door and Mother's deep voice saying, "Bec, thank you for the flowers, they are beautiful!" It's the little things that getme when I least expect it.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

I didn't know there were that many different ways to pray!

Sitting on top of Crowder's Mountain, making a crown of thorn's bracelet, lighting a candle, walking a labyrinth, standing on Holy ground, writing a card to my brother, these are all ways to experience prayer and sabbath time in our busy lives. Yet, walking is one of the most easily available spiritual practices.



Imagine if Jesus traveled by car to do His ministry. How might that have looked? Think of all the distractions we have when we are driving? What opportunities do we miss? As Jesus walked He could pay attention. He could touch people physically and spiritually. I believe Jesus means for us to get out of the car and to walk at a pace where we can see, hear and feel His presence. When someone asks us where we want to be in our lives, the last thing that occurs to us is to look down at our feet and say, "right here."


My challenge to you this Holy Week is to start "right here", look down at your feet, take a deep breath and walk out your faith.




Sunday, March 21, 2010

Open Your Eyes

On a recent flight to Seattle, WA, I had "plenty" of time to watch the movie, "The Blindside."  It was my second time seeing this story.  Near the end of the movie, Leigh Ann asks Michael, "how did you live through the distractions of Hurt Village (housing project in Memphis, TN)?"  He replied, "easy."  His mama would tell him to close his eyes when stuff was happening, and then she would count to three.  He continues, "then she would tell me that when you open your eyes the past is gone and the world is a good place, and it's all going to be OK."  

Perhaps I didn't completely miss this part the first time around, but I surely heard it differently this time.  Maybe it is because my Women's Sabbath group has been trying since mid-January to find rest and renewal in our busy lives.  Everyday we challenge ourselves to practice Sabbath.

Sabbath can be sitting alone in a patch of grass, a walk on the beach, preparing a family meal (OK, that's a stretch for me), or lighting a candle.  But when we can't do these things, maybe it is as simple as Michael's mama said..."Closing your eyes, and then opening them to realize the world IS a good place!"  Often times we tend to focus on all of the distractions and things going wrong in our lives.  That's easy to do.  However, when we take time to stop, look, and listen to the world around us, we realize we are constantly blessed by the steadfast love of God.

Imagine that quiet place and listen to the still, small voice saying, "Be still and know that I am God."  Everything is going to be alright.  

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

March Madness

The liturgical calendar of Lent always coincides with the NCAA College Basketball's March Madness. Recently, my 88 year old mother and I were watching a game and she commented on the size of the crowd. "Wouldn't a preacher love to have that many in church on Sunday?" Despite the havoc dementia has wreaked on her mind, she was spot on with that observation. Similarly, years ago, my father(now deceased) became agitated with members of his congregation who complained when the church service "ran long." He was old in years, but wise in counsel when he said, "at a ballgame we cheer for it to go into overtime! While at church, we become irritated with OT. "

Now don't get me wrong, I enjoy basketball, March Madness, college crowds
and overtime, but like my parents I wish the church was the recipient of this same passion and desire that drives the NCAA Tournament.



Good luck to the Lady Jaguars in your quest for a 3A NC State Title!

Saturday, February 27, 2010

BARREL OF MONKEYS

  • 5 little monkeys jumping in my head, 1 fell down and now there are ...
  • 4 little monkeys jumping in my head, 1 fell down and now there are ...
  • 3 little monkeys jumping in my head, 1 fell down and now there are ...
  • 2 little monkeys jumping in my head, 1 fell down and now there is ...
  • 1 little monkey jumping in my head, 1 fell down and now there are ...
  • No more monkeys jumping in my head!!!

Have you found your five minutes of quiet this week?

Our Sr. Hi Bible Study is using Henri Nouwen's Lenten Devotion. We were reminded at Wednesday night's study how important the discipline of prayer is in our lives. Without prayer we become deaf to the voice of love and become confused by the many competing voices asking for our attention.

Does your inner life reflect a "barrel of monkeys" jumping in your head? I challenge each of us to find half an hour, or five minutes to "be still", without talking to someone, listening to music, watching TV, texting or reading a book. In this solitude, may we hear the comforting voice of Jesus.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

So Others Might Eat

In 2000, the youth of FUMC traveled to Washington, DC for our Summer Mission Project. In the heart of the nation's capital the dichotomy of wealth and poverty can be seen within a few city blocks.

One of our favorite locations to serve was D C Central. This food recovery program began in the trunk of one man's car dedicated to traveling the city to dignitary's gatherings to save the left over food. This man's vision has grown to include trucks picking up food donations, persons being trained in food services and meals delivered to shelters throughout the city. The labor at D C Central is provided by recipients of the food. This is yet another benefit of this organization because it empowers the people to be trained in food services so they have a marketable skill when they leave the shelter.

This experience left Mark and Angie Hollar(members of our delegation) knowing they had to do more. Upon returning to Gastonia, the conversations began. The youth who had witnessed this program first hand joined Mark and Angie in taking the leftover food from UMYF to Cornerstone Christian Ministries. We encouraged other church groups to do the same.

However, wide our vision was at the time none of us had the resources required to implement a project of this magnitude. But the desire still burned in Mark and he was able to connect with a principal and student at Highland School of Technology to explore this food recovery program. Amanda, an outstanding student was persistent and thorough in research and red tape; however, she graduated before the project could get off the ground. Had we hit another dead end? Not to worry! A very capable Highland student was summoned to the Principal's office! It was our own Clay Hackney. Not because he was in trouble, but because he had the desire and drive to complete this project.

I am happy to report that in January 2010, food recovery began at Highland School of Technology. The food left from lunch in the cafeteria is boxed and donated to As One Ministries.

So to Mark and Angie and the other members of the 2000 FUMC mission trip thank you for your vision. It is never to late to see your dreams come true!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

THROW YOURSELF INTO LENT

The season of Lent begins next week with Ash Wednesday service in FUMC Sanctuary at 6:30pm and continues through Easter.

The conversation about what to "give up" for Easter will begin to happen this week. In some ways, I feel we have "watered down" the Lenten experience by focusing so much on what to give up! Lent is also a call to be disciplined in our spiritual life. It's not enough to give up chocolate, soft drinks, fast food, etc. if you don't give time and energy to prayer and reflection on scripture.

At prayer breakfast, senior highs received a personal prayer from Colossians for each day of February. Let this begin your daily practice of scripture and prayer. Parents, friends, others can see Becky if you would like a copy to guide you as well.

I hope each of you will choose to go deeper this Lenten season. Throw yourself "wholly" (what you give up physically) and "holy" (what you anticipate God doing) into Lent.

Prayer: Dear God, Be with me on this Lenten Journey. Create in me discipline and stability of faith in You.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Be CROSS Eyed

Keep your eyes open this week for different types of crosses on church buildings, in hospitals, or jewelry. Sometimes cross shapes just happen in unexpected places. If you have a copy of my book "The Positive Place" notice how if you open the book, lay it face down as if holding your place, you will notice the bold lines are in the shape of the cross. This was intentional to represent the intersection of my faith and life experiences. Think about your favorite symbols and what they represent about you. As you see different type crosses this week is God trying to tell you something? Let me know what, when and where you see the crosses.